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f you plant honesty, you will reap trust.
If you plant goodness, you will reap friends.
If you plant humility, you will reap greatness.
If you plant perseverance, you will reap victory.
If you plant consideration, you will reap harmony.
If you plant hard work, you will reap success.
If you plant forgiveness, you will reap reconciliation.
If you plant openness, you will reap intimacy.
If you plant patience, you will reap improvements.
If you plant faith, you will reap miracles.

But
If you plant dishonesty, you will reap distrust.
If you plant selfishness, you will reap loneliness.
If you plant pride, you will reap destruction.
If you plant envy, you will reap trouble.
If you plant laziness, you will reap stagnation.
If you plant bitterness, you will reap isolation.
If you plant greed, you will reap loss.
If you plant gossip, you will reap enemies.
If you plant worries, you will reap wrinkles.
If you plant sin, you will reap guilt।

कोउरागे

So be careful what you plant now, It will determine what you will reap
tomorrow, The seeds you now scatter, Will make life worse or better,
your life or the ones who will come after. Yes, someday, you will enjoy
the fruits, or you will pay for the choices you plant today।

"Have the courage to say no.

Have the courage to face the truth.

Do the right thing because it is right.

These are the magic keys to living your life with integrity."

The last time i cried...Its a poem...

In the name of The Most Merciful who shows Mercy to those who have Mercy on Others.

The last time i cried,
I was sitting at home,and it was deep in the night...
I was watching TV and looking at the flickering screen of the shadows and realities.
I was thinking of the olive branch,the symbol of peace,and the poor white little bird holding it.
I was shocked at seeing a girl cry.She was taken back,She cried at the sight of having all the members of her family killed by a faithless,cruel and savage bunch of soldiers.
The last time i cried,
I could see i could see the people who were crushed into pieces,under the heavy steps of artilleries.
I was aghast to see members of a family screwd down to the floor of their house by collapsing roof over them,and the futile attempts of bulldozers to bring them out and take them to the hospital,which was at their elbow.
The last time i cried,
I couldn't believe it when i held on a face,which was dried up and dehydrated.
I was thinking of the ever increasing death tolls of famine in Aferica and the ever growing money sums of the developed countries.
The last time i cried,
I was thinking of the men of the world and their conducts,
I was thinking of the absence of civilization and barrenness of the world,the larg confused mass of wildemess.
The last time i cried,
I was thinking whether would t be the last time i cried.

M.R.Banan

My Life - The Peom
If I were a painter..... .

you would be my painting,

if i were an author.....

! you would be my story,

if i were a poet.....

you would be my poem,

UNFORTUNATELY

I'm a Programmer.. .


and you are my BUG

Friendship Wishes
Someone ask me to describe u in two words he expect me to answer The Best but i did not answer i just smiled and said No Comparison


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If someone is too tired to give you a smile, leave one of your own, because no one needs a smile as much as those who have none to give.


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To Luv some1 is madness, 2b loved by some1 is a Gift,
Loving some1 who loves u is a duty, but being loved by some1 whom u luv is LIFE.


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Every moment of ur life is a picture which u had never seen before and which u'll never see again. So enjoy n live life & make each moment beautiful.


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Days are too BUSY.. Hours are too FEW.. Seconds are too FAST.. but there is Always a time for me to ask.. How R U? n Hope Ur FINE.. MISS U!


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This is the telephone terrorist team. While receiving this message a virus will be activated. This virus should have infected your mobile by now. Your mobile will be disabled, unless you are ugly.


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-there is a long ,long trail a winding
-into the lands of my dreams
-where the nightmare is singing
-and white moon beams
-a long night of waiting untill my dreams all come true........


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Never cry for those who donot deserve ur tears but who deserve your tears never let you cry


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In life when you get troubles, don't get nervous... Just close your eyes and follow ur heart... b'coz heart may be in left.... but it is always right


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DONT4GET
Please remind me 2 remind u about reminding me 2 send u this reminder that reminds me of reminding u that i am always ur friend. DONT 4GET


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U-ME=NOTHING
U+ME=EVERYTHING
I LOVE U


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Smile in Pleasure,
Smile in pain,
smile when trouble pours like rain,
Smile when someone hurts U,
Smile bcoz someone cares 4 U...

Don't Give Up
You may be tired...
Still� don't give up.

You may feel alone...
Still... don't give up.

You may feel like you've been in the storm too long...
Still... don't give up.

You may feel like the enemy is beating you down...
Still... don't give up.

You may feel like no one cares and no one sees you...
Still... don't give up.

You may feel smothered with responsibilities; work and bills...
Still... don't give up.

You may feel defeated, angry, hurt, put down and fed up...
Still... Don't give up!

God is with you
In God�s time your breakthrough will come because of your
perseverance, faith and your willingness to learn.

Stay open and optimistic because your next blessing will probably
come from the most unexpected person or place.
Remember, always stay in the Light, and keep on keeps� on.
Be Blessed...

I am Thankful

I am Thankful... I can walk.
There are those who have never taken their first step.



I Am Thankful... I can see the beauty all around me.
There are those whose world is always dark.



I Am Thankful... I can hear music playing.
There are those who entire life has been spent in silence.



I Am Thankful... My heart can be broken.
There are those who are so hardened they cannot be touched.



I Am Thankful... I can move about freely and express my beliefs.
There are those who live in constant fear.



I Am Thankful... I have been loved.
There are those for whom no one has ever cared.



I Am Thankful... I can work.
There are those who have to depend on others for even their most basic needs.



I Am Thankful... For I have the opportunity to help others.
There are those who have not been so abundantly blessed as I.

The 7 Ups!

1.Wake Up !!



Decide to have a good day.



"This is the day the Lord hath made;



Let us rejoice and be glad in it."



Psalms 118:24







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2. Dress Up !!

The best way to dress up is to put on a smile.

A smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks.

"The Lord does not look at the things man looks at.

Man looks at outward appearance,

But the Lord looks at the heart."

I Samuel 16:7




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3. Shut Up!!

Say nice things and learn to listen.

God gave us two ears and one mouth,

So He must have meant for us to do twice as much listening as talking.

"He who guards his lips guards his soul."

Proverbs 13:3




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4. Stand Up!!



. . For what you believe in.

Stand for something or you will fall for anything.

"Let us not be weary in doing good; for at the proper time,

We will reap a harvest if we do not give up.

Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good..."

Galatians 6:9-10




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5. Look Up !!

. . . To the Lord.

"I can do everything through God who strengthens me".

Philippians 4:13




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6. Reach Up !!

. . .For something higher.

"Trust in the Lord with all your heart,

And lean not unto your own understanding.

In all your ways, acknowledge Him, and He will direct your path."

Proverbs 3:5-6




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7. Lift Up !!

. . . Your Prayers.

"Do not worry about anything; instead

PRAY ABOUT EVERYTHING."

Philippians 4:6




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C?T?H?

CONFIDENCE
Once all village people decided to pray for rain .On the day of
prayer all
People gathered and only one boy came with an umbrella that's
confidence.. .........

TRUST
Trust should be like the feeling of a one year old baby...
When you throw him in the air, he laughs......
Because he knows you will catch him........

HOPE
A human being can live for
40 days without water
8 minutes without air
But not even 1 second without hope....


SO ALWAYS HAVE CONFIDENCE, TRUST OTHERS AND NEVER LOOSE HOPE

When everything fails ,HOPE whispers TRY Once more

Today Is The Very First Day Of The Rest Of My Life
This is the beginning of a new day.
I have been given this day
to use as I WILL.
I can waste it...
or use it for good,
But what I do today is important,
Because I am exchanging
a day of my life for it!
When tomorrow comes,
this day will be gone forever,
Leaving in its place
something that I have traded for it.
I want it to be gain,
and not loss;
Good and not evil;
success and not failure;
In order that I shall not regret
the price I have paid for it.
I will try just for today,
for you never fail until you stop trying.

"Tread Softly"

"Friendship is unnecessary,
like philosophy, like art....
It has no survival value;
rather it is one of those things
that give value to survival."
-C.S. Lewis-

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Tread Softly

When you open the door to the heart of a friend, tread softly.
When into its chambers you slowly descend, tread softly.

When you look in the corners, when you walk down the halls
When look behind doors and you look behind walls
When you stop when you hear
It’s your name someone calls, tread softly.

When you start to feel comfy and feeling at ease,
When you're having your fun and starting to tease,
When you fall for the notion this friend is a breeze, tread softly.

For inside this heart lives a delicate thing;
it makes tulips open, it makes songbirds sing,
it makes every morning a beautiful spring, so tread softly.

-Mariane Holbrook-

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Cooking and Household Tips
Baking Soda Test baking soda for freshness by pouring 1/2 teaspoon vinegar or lemon juice over the baking soda. If doesn't actively bubble, it's too old to be effective. Pour it down the drain and buy a new box! *

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Baking Tips
Unless a recipe specifies otherwise, allow refrigerated ingredients to come to room temperature before you begin. Remove butter and eggs one hour in advance.
Stick margarine may be used in place of butter in most cases. Bust insure good results, stay away from soft spreads or reduced-fat versions.
If dough gets gluey, resist the impulse to add extra flour or cookies will be tough. Cool in fridge until firm, or roll out in between two pieces of waxed paper.
To curtail spreading, set dough on cool sheet and bake immediately.
Minutes count. Start checking cookies at soonest time given.

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Beets
Adding a little lemon juice to beets before cooking will allow them to maintain their color. *

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Bread Bread stores best in a cool, dry place. It may be kept in the refrigerator but will get stale more quickly. It will keep in the freezer for as long as three months if tightly wrapped. Press out as much air as possible. *
To better slice hot bread, place a knife in boiling water for about 10 seconds before slicing. *

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Brown Sugar Keep brown sugar wrapped in another plastic bag in the freezer to make it last longer without hardening. Take it out to thaw about 15 minutes before you need to use it, then return the remaining portion to the freezer. *

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Burn on skin
An old Italian remedy from my grandfather. I was burned with hot butter over most of my hand and he immediately cut a russet potato in slices, placed them over the burn and wrapped them tight with a kitchen towel. The starch in the potato stopped most of the blistering and eased the pain. *


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Cakes When a cake recipe calls for flouring the baking pan, use a bit of the dry cake mix instead-no white mess on the outside of the cake. *


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Carrots Always REMOVE the tops of carrots before storing. Tops drain the carrots' moisture, making them dry and limp. *

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Celery Wrap celery in aluminum foil when putting in the refrigerator - it will keep for weeks. *
To keep celery crisp, stand it up in a pitcher of cold, salted water. Then refrigerate. *
Celery will keep longer if stored in brown paper bags instead of cellophane. *
A better way to keep celery fresh (and it works for Romaine lettuce as well) is to wrap it with a damp paper towel and then put it in a plastic bag with as little air as possible and refrigerate. *


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Cheese Cheese won't harden when refrigerated if the ends are lightly buttered before storing. *
Cleaning: getting the cheese off the Grater
To get the residual cheese film off of your grater, just scrape a raw potato and a little raw onion over the soiled surface before it goes into the dishwasher. Add a little egg to the grated potato and onion and have a potato pancake for lunch. *
Bulk cheese will keep longer when it's wrapped in a paper towel dampened with vinegar and placed in a sealed plastic bag. The vinegar will inhibit mold growth. Re-moisten the paper towel every few days, as needed. *


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Cookies, Drop When making drop cookies, make a large batch, form into balls and freeze on cookie sheet. When frozen put into zip lock bags and store in freezer. Later, just remove amount needed from freezer, place on cookie sheets and bake while still frozen. This way you will always have a variety of cookies on hand. *

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Cole Slaw For a crunchy cole slaw, cut the cabbage in half and soak in salted water for an hour. Drain well and then make the slaw. *

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Corn on the Cob To remove corn silk from corn on the cob, dampen a paper towel or terry cloth and brush downward on the cob. Every bit of corn silk should come off. *
When boiling corn on the cob, add a pinch of sugar to help bring out the corn's natural sweetness. *

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Eggs To determine whether an egg is fresh, immerse it in a pan of cool, salted water. If it sinks, it is fresh-if it rises to the surface, throw it away. *
Getting egg off of your silverware and plates: Wash them with cold water first. *
Egg whites will not run while boiling or poaching if a little vinegar is added to the water. *
Always store eggs in their carton because eggs can absorb refrigerator odors.*
To separate a lot of eggs at once, break them carefully into a big bowl and then (with your impeccably clean hands) simply scoop out the yolks. *


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Eggplant Why do you need to salt an eggplant before cooking it?
Salt large mature eggplants, to leach out excess water or bitterness. To salt an eggplant, cut it crosswise into quarter-inch- thick slices. Arrange the slices in a single layer on a wire rack set over a baking sheet. Liberally salt the slices and allow them to drain for one to two hours. Before cooking, press the eggplant slices between paper towels to remove the excess water and salt.
When purchasing an eggplant, look for firm, heavy fruit with smooth and evenly colored skin. To check for ripeness, press lightly on the skin with your fingers—if the imprint remains visible, the eggplant is ripe; if the flesh springs back, it is not yet ready to eat.

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Garlic Chop garlic in a small amount of salt to prevent pieces from sticking to the knife and chopping board. Then, pulverize pieces with the tip of the knife. *
Dealing with the garlic press...Everyone knows that cleaning a garlic press can be tiresome and most chefs won't even use one because of this fact. Try pressing the cloves through your garlic press unpeeled. You will get a finer profile, but just reach in and pull out the husk and see if that doesn't change your mind about the garlic press. (I do this all of the time - it works well). *
How to obtain a mild or stronger flavor from the same clove or bulb of garlic:
Garlic's flavor comes from sulfur compounds that are exposed when the membranes of the individual cells are severed or broken and come in contact with the air. So...understanding this we can assume that a clove of garlic that is run through a garlic press or smashed under your chefs knife will offer your dish a stronger flavor then will garlic that has been sliced or quartered. A roasted or simmered bulb will be even milder. *


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Hamburgers When preparing hamburger patties, make a hole in the center with your finger. The hamburgers will cook faster and more evenly.


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Jars, Opening If you have problem opening jars: Try using latex dishwashing gloves. They give a non-slip grip that makes opening jars easy. *

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Lettuce, Wilted To freshen slightly wilted lettuce, sprinkle a few drops of lemon juice in a bowl of ice water. Place the lettuce in the water and let it stand for ten minutes. *
Lettuce will keep better if you store it in the refrigerator without washing it first. Wash it the day you use it. *
Lettuce will keep longer if stored in brown paper bags instead of cellophane. *

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Pine Nuts For most recipes and when used as a garnish, they should be lightly toasted. Heat a dry, heavy frying pan, put in the pine nuts and toss quickly until they turn pale golden. Do not allow them to brown, or they will taste unpleasant.

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Popcorn Popcorn will keep longer if stored in the freezer. *

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Odors, eliminating Fill a small sauce pan with water, add half a lemon sliced, and 4-5 whole cloves. Bring to a boil and leave to simmer. Your whole house will smell great!

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Onions Once an onion has been cut in half, rub the leftover side with butter and it will stay fresh longer. *

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Olive Oil Olive oil can be heated to very high temperatures without burning or smoking, which makes it ideal for frying, sauce making and other cooking. Extra virgin olive oil should be saved for dressing fish, vegetables and salads.

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Onions Once an onion has been cut in half, rub the leftover side with butter and it will stay fresh longer. *

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Plastic Container Saver Spray your plastic container (Tupperware) with nonstick cooking spray before pouring in tomato-based sauces - no more stains. *

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Potatoes To keep potatoes from budding, place an apple in the bag with the potatoes. *
When making mashed potatoes, melt the butter and warm up the milk in the microwave before adding to potatoes.
To prevent cut potatoes from turning brown, place in a bowl of cool water until ready to cook. *
A few drops of lemon juice in the water will whiten boiling potatoes. *
The fastest way to bake a Potato! Wash the potato, coat it with butter. Stick a nail into the center and bake on a sheet pan so that the potatoes do not touch each other. This should reduce cooking time by at least 20 minutes. The butter will keep the skins from cracking and add flavor. *


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Rice Krispie Treats Run your hands under cold water before pressing Rice Krispies treats in the pan-the marshmallow won't stick to your fingers. *
When mixing the rice krispies with the marshmallows, leave the pan on the stove on low. This will keep the marshmallow soft for a longer time and give you more time to mix it properly and without panic!

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Spaghetti Squash Cooking Spaghetti Squash in the microwave: Pierce the squash with a big kitchen fork or a skewer in many places. Put the squash on a plate and "nuke" it until it gets soft to the touch. Let rest for 10 minutes before slicing in half. Remove center and scrape out the spaghetti from the sides of the squash.

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How to Get a Girlfriend if You're a Nerd...Best Tips Ever....

Hi everyone,
Follow these tips and its a challenge that you will succeed...

Steps

• Girls love a guy who makes her feel beautiful. so compliment her and always listen to her and never interrupt. By the way girls love funny guys who are laid back.
• Know your reasons. How badly do you want a girlfriend? Are you doing it for the right reasons? If you are doing it because you really just want to have a relationship, not just to brag "I have a girlfriend!" then you're on the right track. But if you're looking for a girlfriend out of desperation or just to look cooler in front of your friends, your chances are low.
• Stay smart. Don't think you have to dumb yourself down. Know that you're lovable as you are. Maybe a little sprucing up will help, but don't get obsessed with it. Getting a girlfriend shouldn't be your first priority. Remember, while the football players have a hot cheerleader for a girlfriend every week, you'll be laughing your head off when you're forty-five and they're still working at McDonald's.
• Think of some girls you know, especially those you know personally, i.e., you are friends with. Or just ones you know who you perceive to be at about the same social status as you. No matter how hard you try, you're probably not going to be going out with the most popular girl at your school any time soon. Find a smart girl that can keep up with you.
• Find some things to talk about. Ideally, you should find a girl who knows something about your interests and possibly shares them. Or, find a girl with interests of her own that she's dedicated to as much as you are to yours. For example, she might not care to learn how to design websites and you might not want to recite Shakespeare, but at least you can respect each other's pursuit of something less frivolous than popularity.
• Tidy up. Basically, don't look like a slob. Don't smell atrocious. That's the worst thing you could do. Keep your teeth food-free, your face clean, and your breath fresh. Find clothes that fit your personality--they don't have to be cool, just relatively neat.
• Use your intelligence to your advantage. Not many girls will turn down tutoring sessions from a really intelligent guy, as long as they average a B or higher. With tutoring, you can make friends with lots of girls. Or, if there is a subject that you're having trouble with, ask one of the girls in your class who is doing well to help you out. Girls love to be appreciated for more than just their looks. If dating them doesn't work out, then at the least you've probably made lots of lasting friends, and no harm can come from that.
• Be confident! Nothing is more important than being confident. If your confidence is low to begin with, then build it up first. Remember, you are who you are, acting like you're different than you are will only make you crash and burn later. Be confident in (and even learn to enjoy) who you are, and the other person will be able to do so as well.

Tips

• If you have a close friend, you may want to ask them for their thoughts about you, and what would work best for your personality.
• A sense of humor can't hurt.
• Try to convince your best friend to follow these guidelines, then hang out with him at local places where you know people go. Smile, laugh, have fun! People want to be friends with people who are fun, and girls want to date guys that have friends and have fun.
• Don't think that there aren't girls out there who are also geeks and nerds. It might feel hopeless to perfect yourself, in which case, remember you don't need a perfect girl, just a girl you can get along with. That girl might be a fellow geek too.
• Make yourself presentable so that you will have more confidence in yourself: Get a haircut, pick up some clothes that make you look good, shave, hit up a gym, buy or borrow some cologne or axe (a tiny amount, don't overdo it! It should be barely noticable). Taking care of your body and how you present it will make a big impression about how much effort you are willing to put into a relationship, and a physical attraction is never a bad thing.
• Be yourself! Confidence in yourself is one of the biggest things that girls notice.

Warnings

• Going out with a close friend may not be such a good idea. Think how it'll be when you break up. On the other hand, you already know what she likes.
• Don't be creepy. No one likes stalkers. If you are unsure of what it means to be creepy, imagine what it would take to creep you out. Picture the whole person (how often are they with you? how do they smile?) and remember those qualities. Those are what you do not want to be.
• Don't be condescending when tutoring. Tutor girls to help them do better, not to kiss them! If they see that you are genuinely interested in their knowledge, they will respect that.
• Keep an ear on your conversation: if you hear yourself monopolizing the discussion with your brilliant insights, or descending into Trivialand, beware. Stop, smile, say something like, "Whoa, I got carried away there. What do you think?" If she doesn't seem enthusiastic about the conversation, let her take the reins, or change the subject to one she's comfortable with. We nerds are detail oriented, and tend to prattle on happily, well beyond the point where anyone else is interested. Try to listen more than you talk. Careful listening is a vital key to good relationships.
• If you fall into the clique mentality, you exclude many quality girls and you are no better than the preppy kids.

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