How to Get a Girlfriend if You're a Nerd...Best Tips Ever....

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Follow these tips and its a challenge that you will succeed...

Steps

• Girls love a guy who makes her feel beautiful. so compliment her and always listen to her and never interrupt. By the way girls love funny guys who are laid back.
• Know your reasons. How badly do you want a girlfriend? Are you doing it for the right reasons? If you are doing it because you really just want to have a relationship, not just to brag "I have a girlfriend!" then you're on the right track. But if you're looking for a girlfriend out of desperation or just to look cooler in front of your friends, your chances are low.
• Stay smart. Don't think you have to dumb yourself down. Know that you're lovable as you are. Maybe a little sprucing up will help, but don't get obsessed with it. Getting a girlfriend shouldn't be your first priority. Remember, while the football players have a hot cheerleader for a girlfriend every week, you'll be laughing your head off when you're forty-five and they're still working at McDonald's.
• Think of some girls you know, especially those you know personally, i.e., you are friends with. Or just ones you know who you perceive to be at about the same social status as you. No matter how hard you try, you're probably not going to be going out with the most popular girl at your school any time soon. Find a smart girl that can keep up with you.
• Find some things to talk about. Ideally, you should find a girl who knows something about your interests and possibly shares them. Or, find a girl with interests of her own that she's dedicated to as much as you are to yours. For example, she might not care to learn how to design websites and you might not want to recite Shakespeare, but at least you can respect each other's pursuit of something less frivolous than popularity.
• Tidy up. Basically, don't look like a slob. Don't smell atrocious. That's the worst thing you could do. Keep your teeth food-free, your face clean, and your breath fresh. Find clothes that fit your personality--they don't have to be cool, just relatively neat.
• Use your intelligence to your advantage. Not many girls will turn down tutoring sessions from a really intelligent guy, as long as they average a B or higher. With tutoring, you can make friends with lots of girls. Or, if there is a subject that you're having trouble with, ask one of the girls in your class who is doing well to help you out. Girls love to be appreciated for more than just their looks. If dating them doesn't work out, then at the least you've probably made lots of lasting friends, and no harm can come from that.
• Be confident! Nothing is more important than being confident. If your confidence is low to begin with, then build it up first. Remember, you are who you are, acting like you're different than you are will only make you crash and burn later. Be confident in (and even learn to enjoy) who you are, and the other person will be able to do so as well.

Tips

• If you have a close friend, you may want to ask them for their thoughts about you, and what would work best for your personality.
• A sense of humor can't hurt.
• Try to convince your best friend to follow these guidelines, then hang out with him at local places where you know people go. Smile, laugh, have fun! People want to be friends with people who are fun, and girls want to date guys that have friends and have fun.
• Don't think that there aren't girls out there who are also geeks and nerds. It might feel hopeless to perfect yourself, in which case, remember you don't need a perfect girl, just a girl you can get along with. That girl might be a fellow geek too.
• Make yourself presentable so that you will have more confidence in yourself: Get a haircut, pick up some clothes that make you look good, shave, hit up a gym, buy or borrow some cologne or axe (a tiny amount, don't overdo it! It should be barely noticable). Taking care of your body and how you present it will make a big impression about how much effort you are willing to put into a relationship, and a physical attraction is never a bad thing.
• Be yourself! Confidence in yourself is one of the biggest things that girls notice.

Warnings

• Going out with a close friend may not be such a good idea. Think how it'll be when you break up. On the other hand, you already know what she likes.
• Don't be creepy. No one likes stalkers. If you are unsure of what it means to be creepy, imagine what it would take to creep you out. Picture the whole person (how often are they with you? how do they smile?) and remember those qualities. Those are what you do not want to be.
• Don't be condescending when tutoring. Tutor girls to help them do better, not to kiss them! If they see that you are genuinely interested in their knowledge, they will respect that.
• Keep an ear on your conversation: if you hear yourself monopolizing the discussion with your brilliant insights, or descending into Trivialand, beware. Stop, smile, say something like, "Whoa, I got carried away there. What do you think?" If she doesn't seem enthusiastic about the conversation, let her take the reins, or change the subject to one she's comfortable with. We nerds are detail oriented, and tend to prattle on happily, well beyond the point where anyone else is interested. Try to listen more than you talk. Careful listening is a vital key to good relationships.
• If you fall into the clique mentality, you exclude many quality girls and you are no better than the preppy kids.

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